Losing a beloved family member is never easy, but a new study suggests the loss of a grandmother in particular may have significant repercussions for the loved ones she leaves behind.
A team of US researchers found that for up to seven years after the death of a grandmother, adolescent boys had a 50% increase in depression symptoms compared to peers who were not grieving. Additionally, this loss also was associated with a higher chance of both adolescent boys’ and girls’ mothers also becoming depressed.
Ashton Verdery, Harry and Elissa Sichi Early Career Professor of Sociology, Demography, and Social Data Analytics at Pennsylvania State University, said the findings suggest that recognising these experiences as a risk factor for teen depression could help identify opportunities to intervene and prevent additional detrimental events, such as major depressive disorders, dropping out of school, substance use, and criminal justice system involvement, among others.
“As a society, we think such losses are normal, which to some extent they are, as almost everyone loses their grandparents during the first few decades of their lives,” Mr Verdery said.
“However, just because such experiences are common does not mean these losses are not a source of great sadness for many people, and possibly a risk factor for worse health outcomes among a subset of them.”
Along with co-authors, Michelle Livings and Emily Smith-Greenaway from the University of Southern California and Rachel Margolis from the University of Western Ontario, Mr Verdery has been studying how bereavement – or experiencing the death of a loved one – has increased during the COVID-19 pandemic, and how those losses affect people’s health.
As the team examined previous research, they noticed that few studies had explored what happens to those who experience the death of a grandparent during their teenage years.
“This was surprising because such deaths are the most common type of bereavement teenagers will face, and there are several reasons that suggest these experiences can be detrimental,” Mr Verdery said.
He said more research needs to be carried out on why the death of a grandmother has this effect, but not the death of a grandfather. He said it’s possible that the death of a grandfather also can affect adolescents, but in different ways.
“We haven’t yet examined whether ‘acting out’ behaviors like school suspension or criminal justice system involvement can be predicted by these deaths, but it’s possible that a grandfather’s death could have a larger role in those outcomes,” Mr Verdery said.
“This could especially be true for boys, since grandfathers can sometimes act as male role models, especially in lower-income communities beset by high rates of incarceration and related challenges.”
Ms Smith-Greenaway also noted that gender socialisation may explain boys’ unique vulnerability to these losses. Even though adolescent girls are more likely to experience depression, they tend to have more peer support and are socialised to grieve in more outward, expressive ways, whereas adolescent boys may feel pressure to internalise their emotions to avoid appearing weak.
Mr Verdery added that future work could help identify the precise reasons why adolescent boys are especially at-risk.
